To lose your virginity, you have to engage in sexual activity. There is no “cherry” that’s just a crude term for hymen. You don’t have to have sex to break your hymen, but to be no longer a virgin you have to have sex. I’m not sure what you consider “everything” but I’ll assume you have done oral sex. Everyone’s definition of virginity is different, but based on what you’ve said I’d say you’re still a virgin.