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To the orgasm anon: After men orgasm, they go through a refractory period, during which it’s literally impossible for them to have another orgasm and difficult for them to even stay hard. So you having more orgasms isn’t selfish, it’s just how men’s anatomy works. Besides, I’ve never heard of guys complaining about them “only” having one orgasm during sex, so idk what your friends are even on about.

Yep, what you said is 100 percent accurate. Thanks for sharing. 😀

 

OMG! i’ve been following you for sooo lo…

OMG! i’ve been following you for sooo long and i barely went through your selfies – you are soooo pretty!!! wow have a wonderful day!!!

thanks for following and have a great week!

 

how old are you?

how old are you?

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I know youre not into guys so if you don&rsquo…

I know youre not into guys so if you don’t wanna answer this its fine, but Im currently in a relationship with a guy and often when we have sex he wants to make me orgasm 2-3 times, but i feel guilty since he can only orgasm once. Even some of my friends say its a bit selfish to have more orgasms than him… is it? Im not really complaining tbh, but i still feel guilty even if its him doing the “work” (how do i phrase it lmao) willingly and without me even asking it of him. What do you think?

I think you should stop feeling guilty about it. First off, sex isn’t an orgasm for an orgasm type of thing. In other words, because I had four orgasms doesn’t necessarily mean you need or want four orgasms. For example, I was with a partner and I had multiple orgasms but she was totally happy with one super intense orgasm. So should I have forced her to have multiple orgasms? Of course not, because as long as both partners are happy and satisfied that is all that matters. 

And secondly, guys and girls orgasms differently so it basically makes no sense what your friends are suggesting. Sex isn’t a math problem, a matter of addition or subtraction and no one should be keeping a scorecard. And besides women obviously can have multiple orgasms easier than guys, again biology. And again as long as each partner is satisfied and happy, what does it matter? Also, your boyfriend obviously enjoys giving you multiple orgasms SO LET HIM. So to recap, stop feeling guilty, ignore any friend who tries to make you feel guilty, have an open and honest dialogue with your bf about your concerns, and MOST IMPORTANTLY enjoy the orgasms. 

 

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9 months ago my gf left me for another girl, we go to the same college, it destroyed me. i spent months trying to figure out what was wrong with me, my confidence was gone & for 9 months i was single. Saturday night changed that, i met this girl at a dorm party, she’s straight but curious & hot asf. after finding out i was a lesbian she pursued me, my confidence still wasn’t great but i finally kissed her, it was like waking up. that kiss led to an incredible 4 days of sex with her! i’m back!!!

Sorry to hear about the drama with your ex. But I’m super happy to hear you are moving on! Congrats on the sexathon! 

 

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